November 26th, 2006
Vol 2/Issue 11
relaxation... clarity of mind... better health... self awareness...

Dear [First Name],
When you go out to dinner, what makes you decide to pick a certain item from the menu? What you choose is likely to depend on a number of factors, perhaps including your past experiences, how hungry you are, who you're with and the cost. Ultimately though, your decision is an instinctive one. You select what you feel like eating.

It's important to make use of this instinctive decision making ability when you meditate too. Using techniques imposed upon you by external influences (or conditioning) usually results in feelings of obligation rather than enjoyment.

This month's meditation tip explores this idea further, offering you tips on how to choose a meditation that suits your mood.

In This Issue...

Meditating on your moods

Here's a truth - I don't always feel like meditating. Sometimes I'll put off meditating even though I know its just what I need. Conversely, when I meditate it's often because I feel like it - I'm in the mood. Part of the reason I don't always feel like meditating is because I hold on to the idea that meditation means sitting still and that I need time to do it. What this means is that I'm not matching meditation to my mood. It's a bit like not eating because I can't find my favourite item on the menu.

Next time your recognise the need to meditate but feel reluctant to address this need consider all your options. You might find that you do actually want to meditate - you just need to find the right way. Meditation is about paying attention to your own needs and desires - so you need to find a way to meditate that fits these needs and desires. For example, try these suggestions:

IF YOU'RE...   TRY...
Mildly stressed or anxious   ... sitting with your eyes closed in a quiet room and repeat the words 'let go' in time with the breath.
Depressed   ... playing a sport (a fast, vigorous, team sport is an excellent way to focus the mind in a meditative state) or cleaning your house mindfully.
Scattered   ... a few minutes of gentle stretching and joint rotation followed by a few minutes quietly counting the breath from 1 to 5.
Angry   ... 30 minutes of the most vigorous exercise your body can handle, followed by 10 minutes listening to a guided meditation.
Lacking confidence   ... reading your favourite motivational quote or author then sitting for 5 minutes reflecting on your past successes.
Distraught   ... try the buddhist mantra "May I be happy, May I be peaceful, May I be at ease."
Burned Out   ... taking a short, brisk walk to your nearest park or beach, then sitting comfortably for ten minutes tuning into the surrounding sights or sounds.
Lonely   ... inviting a friend or friends around to eat and chat together.
Restless   ... rapid scans of the body from head to foot and back, seeking out the sensations and feelings that contribute to the restlessness.
Seeking Meaning   ... answering the question, "What do I want from life?" by getting out a blank sheet of paper and writing for 10 minutes straight.
Fearful   ... using the power of your imagination. For example, visualise teachers and mentors (e.g. Yoda and Obi-Wan Kenobi) at your side as you tackle a fearful task.
Can't Sleep   ... scanning body from head to feet and back down again, relaxing and softening the muscles as you go.
Bored   ... seeing how many sounds you can identify or how many different sensations you can feel.
Hungry   ... spend a few moments  appreciating the colours, textures and smells of your food before eating.
Lustful   ... get a massage (even if it's only a 10 minute foot or neck and shoulder rub) and focus on the sensations within your body.

Venue Search

Unfortunately our CBD venue is closing down, so we're searching for a new venue in the city for next year. The venue needs to seat 15 to 20 people comfortably. A good central location with easy access would be ideal. If anyone knows of a suitable venue please email matt@melbournemeditationcentre.com.au

Course Schedule

Courses for 2007 begin in February. I'll be working through December and January on updating the course material and structure so you can look forward to improved presentation, more specific weekly exercises and support and course notes summarising each weeks lesson.

Term 1 - February/March 2007

Course Start Date Duration Venue Day Time
Basic February 18 6 Weeks Glen Waverley Sundays 7.00 - 8.30pm
Basic February 19 6 Weeks Clifton Hill Mondays 6.30 - 8.00pm
Teacher Training February 19 12 Weeks Clifton Hill Mondays 8.15 - 9.45pm
Basic February 21 6 Weeks Elwood Wednesdays 8.15 - 9.45pm
Basic February 22 6 Weeks Melbourne CBD Thursdays 5.30 - 7.00pm
Basic February 22 6 Weeks Port Melbourne Thursdays 8.00 - 9.30pm

Teacher Training Course

The 2007 Teacher Training Course has been extended to a 12 week program so that participants have time develop a thorough understanding of meditation's teaching principles as well as several opportunities to script and guide their own meditation sessions. There are only 8 spaces available on the Teacher Training course so you'll need to register at your earliest convenience.

ABC Radio National

"The 'holy grail' of meditation techniques is mindfulness. But what is it, exactly? And why has the medical profession suddenly appropriated this age-old technique devised by yogis and Buddhist monks?"

Listen in to THE SPIRIT OF THINGS with Rachael Kohn on Radio National (Melbourne 621AM) on Monday 27 November, 9pm to find out more. If you can't listen on Monday most Radio National programs are available as online transcripts or podcasts.

And with over 60 distinct programs each week, the ABC's Radio National is well worth checking out. Some of my favourite RN programs include All in the Mind, Encounter, Life Matters and Background Briefing.

There's also music, comedy, book readings, radio dramas and poetry. Programs about science, health, the arts, religion, social history and current affairs are backed by first-class research and presented by some of Australia's leading broadcasters.

Happy Meditating,
Matt.
Matthew Young - Director
p. 03 9531 1607
e. matt@melbournemeditationcentre.com.au
w. www.melbournemeditationcentre.com.au
Melbourne Meditation Centre
PO Box 1174
Elwood, VIC 3184
AUSTRALIA

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